“Kailan ka magkakaasawa?” is a common phrase heard from titas or titos during family gatherings. It’s awkward, it’s intrusive, and let’s face it, it can be a challenge to respond to without feeling a bit flustered. You can be quirky or honest with your response but they will continue to bother you until you get married. Nonetheless, you can always sway this conversation away.
Here are 5 strategies to navigate this age-old query with a touch of quirkiness or honesty:
1. Turn The Tables
Remember how Jodi Sta. Maria flipped the script in Achy Breaky Hearts? Take a page from her book. Instead of answering directly, playfully turn the question back on them. “Tita, don’t worry, kapag nagpakasal na ako, ikaw ang magbibigay ng lechon at cake, ha?” This not only shifts the spotlight but also shows interest in their stories.
2. Shift The Conversation
Respond in a way that humorously sidesteps the question altogether. “Tita, sayang, sobrang busy ko sa pag-book ng flight tickets! Saan kaya magandang bakasyunan next?” This light-hearted deflection introduces a new topic while subtly acknowledging the question.
3. Be Quirky
Injecting humor into your response can diffuse any tension and lighten the mood. “Sige po magpapakasal na pero bigyan nyo muna ako ng 1 million pesos.” This quirky reply shows your playful side and reassures your tita that you’re not taking the question too seriously.
4. Show Off Your Passions
Share your latest adventures or passions to steer the conversation towards positive aspects of your life. “Tita, recently nag-start ako ng photography lessons! Gusto mo ba ng portrait session?” Highlighting your interests not only showcases your vibrant personality but also directs the conversation away from marital status inquiries.
5. Set Boundaries
Set the boundaries but still be respectful. You don’t need their opinions so stay away from this conversation and end with this line, “Hindi po kasal ang focus ko ngayon. Busy pa ako yumaman.”
Whether you choose to humorously deflect, share your passions, or politely set boundaries, remember that your journey is uniquely yours. Embrace these conversations as opportunities to assert your values and priorities with confidence.
Ultimately, how you respond shapes not just the conversation but also how others perceive your autonomy and personal choices. So, stay true to yourself, navigate with poise, and let your authenticity shine through in every interaction.
